Topic: Never fight in front of your children
In fives years of our marriage we have been through a lot of good and bad experiences as couples. But if there is one thing that I will really regret for my whole life is when I let my children witnessed how their father and I fought in front of them. At the early age my children was cheerful and happy kids.
But things has changed when my husband and I was struggling and having issue with our marriage and it is very foolish of me for letting my children witnessed that.
At the age of two my eldest daughter started to witnessed her parents fighting and shouting and she even saw her father hurting her mother.
And the hurting part was the most traumatic for her.
And that really changed her. My once cheerful and happy baby has changed. She became mad. Became colic, bad temper, sometimes she even hurt or slap others or her younger sister just to get what she wants. Same goes with my youngest. daughter.
That is why I really believed that everything starts in the Family. The parents the the first person who are responsible for the development of the personality of their children. So as much as possible, there should be no violence at home for they could bring that violence outside their home.
Right now, we are trying to make work things out and trying to be a better and more matured parents to our children. We are giving them the love and the time that they need for at the toddler stage is where your child's personality is starting to develop.