I love to post this topic here because I think in this forum of mothers and children this beautiful relationship can't be ignored. Women have difficult position as on one place they have to be a caring loving mummy who has a wide array of responsibilities for her children but on next moment she has to be a romantic, loving and passionate wife who has to devote all her attention and affection towards one person that is your husband. Try not to mingle up both sides. Try giving them their rightful times ( along with not forgetting your ownself). If things seem to be difficult try discussing it with your patner and finding a solution. Plius don't compromise your sex life in your daily busy routines. Don't forget that your husband is one of thr best blessings for you. Your happiness lies in his happiness. Discuss with him the romantic times you both had before having children and keep loving him with all your heart because he is the one due to whom you have superb children.